In our 21st Century, where everyone is a Social Media freak, going Digital, learning many new things to get settle down in future, getting jobs, learning new technologies, extending our families, bringing up our children. Phew! So many responsibilities we carry and need to.
Right..?
Well, all these seem to be an important part of our lives. But out of all these learnings and wisdom, we somehow forget the most common and very critical part of our lives, i.e., Verbal Abuse.
In our daily routine,, we usually or tend to abuse someone but never realize or understand what impact it leaves on each one of us.
Abusing someone can impact any one of us. It can be in jobs, peer groups, friendships, relationships and most importantly in families. There is one similar word for all these above-mentioned areas and that is Separation, which further leads to mental and physical imbalance. We look at Verbal Abuse as a means of maintaining control and power over someone and to dominate in a wrong way. There is also a situation where the abuser says something very upsetting to someone and later reacts to as “it was a joke.” Abusing anyone is not at all okay and acceptable in any form.
Verbal Abuse can be in the form of accuse, blame, judge, criticize, threaten, deny someone on day-to-day life. Now, the bitter truth is there is no other way to put an end to the Abuse.
The only way to stop Verbal Abuse is to call out the Abuser each time they collide with you. Start ignoring or refuse to engage with the Verbal Abuser. Totally ending a relationship with the Abuser wouldn’t help and not be a very good idea. Instead, limit contact with him/her or only converse with them when in public area where you are surrounded with good/positive people.
We are the only one who can keep ourselves happy.
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